When someone @ your workplace discourages your good(positive) attitude, there are three "sure - fire" strategies you could, and should use to recover it.
- Take an immediate good(positive) action - Quickly! Do something good(positive) to recover your good(positive) attitude e. g. give an apology, a compliment etc. to the hater to prevent further damage in the co - working relationship from occurring.
- Make the value of your good(positive) attitude "priceless" - Please do conclude that your good(positive) attitude is "priceless" for your future job career successes. Please do recover it immediately.
- Strengthen yourself, so that your good(positive) attitude will not get discouraged again - Strengthen yourself to defend yourself from the bad(negative) behaviors of the individual(s) who are insensitive / disrespectful to you. Try to keep yourself separate from the "bad" individual(s) until they are properly respectful, and sensitive to you.
Yes! Your good(positive) attitude is "priceless", especially @ your workplace! If you don't recover it quickly, you are allowing the "bad" individual(s) to take / steal your good(positive) attitude away from you.
When we recover our good(positive) attitude quickly after having it discouraged, very little, or no harm in the co - working relationship(s) occurs. Having your "good" attitude discouraged lessens your personal confidence, and also your "good" effectiveness at your workplace. Yes it does take a "good" effort to recover it quickly after having it discouraged.
The longer you do allow your good(positive) attitude discouraged, the longer it will take to recover it.
A quick good(positive) action to recover it is recommended in these types of situations.